Dear Mr. Premack: My father got married several years after my mother died. His new wife was still married to another man in Thailand when she married dad. I suspect she (who now claims to be divorced from husband #1) wants to grab dad’s money and assets. My parents had a rather large estate that was partially placed in a trust for the children, but the children do not have a copy of trust. Also, we are unable to access dad (who has Parkinson’s) due to his new wife being a he