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Dear Mr.
Premack: My mother signed a general power of attorney in 2006 naming
me as Agent. Since then she has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s which is
progressing rapidly. She forgets to pay bills and forgets how to get to
the dining room at her retirement home. She forgets to take her medication
even though I lay them out in a weekly pillbox. Her doctor recommended
that she move to assisted living. I took the general power of attorney to
her credit union, and they accepted it. But the next day they phoned her,
and she told them to refuse me access. The credit union has now refused to
honor the general power of attorney, insisting that they will only accept
a durable power of attorney or a court order appointing me as guardian.
Even her retirement home has said she needs assisted living and wants me
to help. What can I do? – GB
The credit union is insisting that your present them
with a durable power of attorney, implying that the general power of
attorney your mother already signed is not durable. In this context,
“durable” means that the power of attorney continues to be legally valid
even if the principal (your mother) has lost legal capacity. Thus, a power
of attorney that is not durable ceases to be valid when the
principal becomes incapacitated.
Fear of liability drives the credit union’s behavior.
For all they know, your mother has seven children who constantly fight
each other and sue anyone who gets in their way. The credit union does not
want to violate their depositor’s rights, or violate the contract they
have with her. So they insist that proper legal channels be followed.
Your mother is forgetful, but she is not necessarily
legally incapacitated. Even the credit union accepted her verbal
instruction to shut you out. Hence, if she is willing and if she can
understand the meaning of the transaction, she may be able to sign a valid
durable power of attorney to
satisfy the credit union’s demand. If that works, remember that when you
sign something as her Agent you actually sign her name to the document
(not your name) and then print the words “by ___ (your name) __, Agent” to
identify your role.
You’ve already seen the troubles that can arise when
legal documentation is faulty. The general power of attorney she signed
did not say the right things, and failed to help when the need arose. She
could have gotten that form from a variety of places (a friend, the
library or even the internet). This time, she should spend a few dollars
with a qualified Elder Law attorney to be certain that the new legal
document will be proper, up-to-date, and effective to the full extent of
the law.
Failing that, the credit union’s other suggestion may
be your only route: file in court to become your mother’s guardian. You
won’t like the process, and neither will your mother. It is many times
more expensive than the cost of a proper durable power of attorney. It is
invasive of her privacy, and if approved by the court it restricts her
civil rights. But it would get you the authority you need to handle her
finances and to make new living arrangements for her.
Dear Mr.
Premack: My brother has lived in a nursing home that has a special
Memory Care unit for the last two and one-half years. His money may run
out soon so he won’t be able to afford the monthly fee. Can he be required
to moved just because he needs to file an application for Medicaid
assistance? – Anon.
Not all long-term care facilities are approved to
house Medicaid patients. If this facility is not Medicaid certified, then
all of its residents must pay with private funds or with insurance
benefits. According to the Texas licensure requirements, if the resident
fails to pay for care provided then, after giving the resident at least 30
days advance notice, the resident can be discharged.
You can use the 30 days to locate a new facility that
is Medicaid certified. Alert the administrator at the new nursing home
that your brother will be applying for Medicaid, to be certain they have
an available “Medicaid bed” (they may have a limit on the number of
Medicaid patients they are allowed to house).
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