| Dear Mr. Premack: I know my
health is getting slowly worse, and I know there are some legal steps I
should take while I still can – like signing a power of attorney and a
medical power of attorney as you suggest in your columns. I don’t have a
lot of money, and if I go to a nursing home I’ll probably qualify for
Medicaid. I feel I can rely on my son to take care of me. Do I still
need to sign legal papers, or will I get by as is? – NL The legal
documents your refer to are necessary so your son has authority to act
on your behalf. If you become disabled, whether you live at home or in a
nursing home, you may not be able to take care of your own business or
make your own medical decisions. The issues will not go away if they are
ignored; instead, things will just get worse for lack of attention.
A recent case decided by the 11th Court of Appeals in
Eastland tells a story that illustrates the possible complexities. In
Huse v. Texas, a mother in your situation did become very ill and found
herself in a nursing home. Her son promised to take care of things for
her. She had little income and few assets, so he filed an application to
get Medicaid’s help with her monthly nursing home bill.
Her son had some difficulty with follow through. It took many months
before mother was approved for Medicaid, and then only because the
nursing home administrator provided information the son failed to
provide. Even after mom was approved for benefits, Medicaid only paid
the part of her bill her social security would not cover.
The nursing home asked her son to pay the rest of the bill, and he
agreed to take care of it. That was the moment things went wrong. He
bounced a check, made more promises, and never actually paid the nursing
home. The administrator eventually pressed charges against the son for
"theft of services." He was arrested, tried and convicted to two years
in the state jail. He appealed his conviction on several technical
issues, but the court decided he had induced the nursing home to provide
continued services by tendering his check.
The lessons of the Huse case are to keep responsibility where it
belongs, and to keep responsibility with someone who is capable. Huse’s
mistake was to promise he would pay the bill when he did not owe the
bill and did not receive the services. His promise was a contract, and
his deception was a criminal act. His mother’s mistake was in failing to
create a power of attorney so that she could retain legal responsibility
thus allowing her son’s liability.
Had she created a power of attorney naming him as agent, he could
have told the nursing home his mother would pay the bill through him,
acting as her agent. The contract for services would have stayed
with her, not him. Failure to pay the bill would have resulted in
eviction, in an accusation he was exploiting his mother or breaching his
fiduciary duties by keeping her monthly income. Jail time was far less
likely. Further, had she known her son’s propensity toward
irresponsibility, she could have appointed someone more capable to
handle her finances – another family member or even a bank.
The future holds many unknowns that cannot be anticipated. Signing a
durable power of attorney and a medical power of attorney naming an
agent to take care of you is a wise act, and you should not put it off.
Those legal documents can protect you by assuring your business is
conducted responsibly by someone you judge to be honest. |